The Soncatcher vision began several years ago. I worked for 27 years at a community counseling center, in Edmond, Oklahoma. The last 12 years were spent as Executive Director, but prior to that I was responsible for providing individual and family counseling, program development, and case management. As case manager I would review hundreds of intake forms from prospective clients requesting family counseling. It was during this time that I noticed a trend; the great majority of these requests were by single mothers requesting a male counselor to see their sons. The presenting concerns were most often related to anger, bad attitudes, and defiant behaviors. Typically these behaviors usually appeared to be directed towards the mother, siblings, and authority figures at school. I would have to inform these single mothers that we could accommodate their requests, but that our earliest opening for a male counselor would often be two to three months! (Not only was this waiting period typical for our agency, but also for most counseling centers in this country.) This reality remains today in most mental health facilities across the nation. In addition, a similar issue exists in our public school systems: a substantial lack of men teachers and administrators. With fathers becoming more absent in the American family, this leaves a gaping hole where male influence is needed. Boys are feeling more and more impact from outside sources, i.e., music, television, movies, etc., often with themes that are contrary to Christian values. The media, for many boys, has become the extended family of today, and unfortunately more time is often spent with this "extended family" than with their own families. So, what to do? It is our belief that providing father-son type experiences such as hiking, going to athletic events, watching movies, fishing, playing catch, and serving side-by side in community projects will give these boys opportunities that will help guide their growth towards manhood. Each activity is designed not only for fun, but Soncatchers' staff is always looking for those "teachable moments" during the activity: times to impart insight and wisdom to assist boys in character, social and life skills development. As a Christian faith-based organization, Soncatchers is open to all boys of all faiths who are from absent-father homes. Please call us for more information about Soncatchers.
Joey Shaw
Founder and Executive Director
405-308-3128
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Joey Shaw, Soncatcher Executive Director, worked 27 years with Edmond Family
Counseling during which he served as an adventure-based counselor, family counselor,
program director, and for the last 12 years, as the Executive Director. During this time
he worked closely with the Edmond Public Schools, the City of Edmond, The Oklahoma
County and Edmond Juvenile Courts, the University of Central Oklahoma and many
Edmond churches. Joey earned his Masters of Education with a major in Counseling
Psychology from the University of Central Oklahoma. As a Licensed Professional
Counselor., Joey has worked with families, adults, and married couples, providing
workshops, counseling and consulting services. Currently, he continues to provide
professional services through Christian Counseling Associates and individual and group
therapy through the Special Needs Alternative Program in the Mid-Del School District.
Joey and his wife Patti have been married 28 years and have homeschooled their three
sons, Jeremiah, Josiah, and Joseph. Through the years, the family has been involved in
elementary and high school sports, educational co-op activities, church youth group and
home care groups, missions, as well as community and civic activities. Currently, the
couple enjoys close relationships with their grown sons, daughter-in-law Whitney, and granddaughter Huntley. They delight in watching their kids dream, serve, and work. .
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